Eyes
shifted from one person to the next and the growing tension in the classroom
was obvious. The setting felt like a
duel that they held during the 1700’s.
Questions ran through my mind asking myself, “Why is she doing that,
it’s practically impossible...Besides she won’t grade it for the next two
months.” From looking around the
classroom, I knew every student was thinking practically the same exact thing.
The time spent on an argument between us, the students, and the teacher had
already reached eight minutes and still counting. The silence finally broke with my teacher
saying, “I don’t care if you guys don’t think it’s fair, I’m the teacher and
what I say is final and that’ll be the end of it.” A loud “UGH” filled the class with a noise
contribution from every student. This example
conflict may seem like a small issue, but it’s actually a really a big problem
that students often face every day.
Students
see a teacher two to three times a week, every week for nine months out of the
twelve-month calendar year. When they’re
put in an environment where they don’t feel appreciated, respected, equal, and
get a say in what’s happening, they dread where they are. Understanding that kids are pretty much
“adults in training”, will help improve the classroom. They don’t know how to
handle so much stress that gets thrown onto them and each class adds its own
stress to a certain degree. Giving students
a voice in the classroom will insure their respect, hard work, imagination,
etc. Try putting the golden rule into
play here and think about if students wouldn’t have anything to do with how the
teacher felt and their thoughts, how bad of an environment would that teacher
be in? With saying this, I don’t mean don’t create boundaries for your students. It’s important for the student to know that
the teacher is there for a reason and that they deserve respect. Respect is given where it’s earned and so if
a teacher is often strict or rude to their students, respect won’t be given to
them. This train of thought isn’t only
applicable in a classroom, but any work environment that requires social
interaction. A teacher who values their
student’s opinions and takes into consideration their thoughts and ideas and
uses them to improve the quality of learning, is the teacher who will be given
the respect they deserve. Ask yourself the question, how are you making sure
that the students are heard as equally as you in-order to maximize learning and
eliminate potential conflict?
Tam,
ReplyDeleteOh, I feel your pain. I hated those, "Because I said so," answers as a child and student and abhor them even more as an adult. Unilateral, black and white, outside-imposed. YUK!
I love the question that you closed with, "Ask yourself the question, how are you making sure that the students are heard as equally as you in-order to maximize learning and eliminate potential conflict?" Student voice is important in the learning process!